Welcome to the first 2026 episode of Church Unscripted! This is the season kick off the with a conversation about building great marriages and avoiding “marriage killers” using the story of David and Bathsheba.
They explore how temptations grow, the difference between wisdom and legalism, and practical steps for creating strong relationships. We also discuss the role of the Holy Spirit in true transformation, how repentance and restoration work in broken moments, and what hope looks like when things seem beyond repair.
Whether you’re married, single, or somewhere in between, you’ll find wisdom and encouragement as the pastors get real about healthy relationships and faith. Don’t miss their practical advice on communication, self-inventory, and the importance of humility.
If you find this conversation helpful, hit subscribe, like, and the notification bell to join us every week!
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**Timestamps:**
00:00 – Welcome to 2026 & Intro to “How to Build a Great Marriage”
00:49 – Pastor Eric recaps Sunday’s message: Avoiding “Marriage Killers”
02:11 – The slippery slope of temptation: David’s story
04:14 – How do we avoid legalism while setting guardrails?
05:58 – Root issues vs. behavior management
07:14 – The role of the Holy Spirit: Real change vs. self-righteousness
09:20 – Guardrails, freedom, and healthy boundaries
10:06 – Tailoring wisdom: Every marriage is different
11:20 – Dealing with sin at the heart level
12:16 – Permissible vs. beneficial: New Testament wisdom
13:04 – How not being in alignment affects worship
14:25 – Repentance, lament, and restoring focus on Jesus
15:24 – Holiness, repentance, and the posture of our hearts
16:28 – Godly sorrow vs. worldly sorrow
18:00 – True repentance: Confession before getting caught
18:41 – Subtle marriage breakers: Anger, spending, laziness
19:43 – Practical example: Becoming self-aware before things spiral
20:10 – Self-inventory and questions for your spouse
21:12 – “SASHET” questions for deeper connection
22:29 – Bridging the communication gap in marriage
23:18 – Pushing through awkwardness for deeper connection
25:48 – Restoration after broken trust and when separation is wise
28:29 – When you can’t leave a tough situation: Putting on God’s armor
30:03 – The role of self-control: Muscle, fruit, or both?
32:41 – The danger of spiritual arrogance and respecting others’ boundaries
34:32 – Humility: Serving others, not shaming their guardrails
36:01 – Hope for those with broken dreams or marriages
39:41 – Wrapping up: Evaluating life and marriage; series continues!
They explore how temptations grow, the difference between wisdom and legalism, and practical steps for creating strong relationships. We also discuss the role of the Holy Spirit in true transformation, how repentance and restoration work in broken moments, and what hope looks like when things seem beyond repair.
Whether you’re married, single, or somewhere in between, you’ll find wisdom and encouragement as the pastors get real about healthy relationships and faith. Don’t miss their practical advice on communication, self-inventory, and the importance of humility.
If you find this conversation helpful, hit subscribe, like, and the notification bell to join us every week!
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**Timestamps:**
00:00 – Welcome to 2026 & Intro to “How to Build a Great Marriage”
00:49 – Pastor Eric recaps Sunday’s message: Avoiding “Marriage Killers”
02:11 – The slippery slope of temptation: David’s story
04:14 – How do we avoid legalism while setting guardrails?
05:58 – Root issues vs. behavior management
07:14 – The role of the Holy Spirit: Real change vs. self-righteousness
09:20 – Guardrails, freedom, and healthy boundaries
10:06 – Tailoring wisdom: Every marriage is different
11:20 – Dealing with sin at the heart level
12:16 – Permissible vs. beneficial: New Testament wisdom
13:04 – How not being in alignment affects worship
14:25 – Repentance, lament, and restoring focus on Jesus
15:24 – Holiness, repentance, and the posture of our hearts
16:28 – Godly sorrow vs. worldly sorrow
18:00 – True repentance: Confession before getting caught
18:41 – Subtle marriage breakers: Anger, spending, laziness
19:43 – Practical example: Becoming self-aware before things spiral
20:10 – Self-inventory and questions for your spouse
21:12 – “SASHET” questions for deeper connection
22:29 – Bridging the communication gap in marriage
23:18 – Pushing through awkwardness for deeper connection
25:48 – Restoration after broken trust and when separation is wise
28:29 – When you can’t leave a tough situation: Putting on God’s armor
30:03 – The role of self-control: Muscle, fruit, or both?
32:41 – The danger of spiritual arrogance and respecting others’ boundaries
34:32 – Humility: Serving others, not shaming their guardrails
36:01 – Hope for those with broken dreams or marriages
39:41 – Wrapping up: Evaluating life and marriage; series continues!